Monday, October 11, 2010

Live Chat for Birth Moms :)

BirthMom Buds Chat tonight at 10 pm eastern in the chat room. We have a new & improved chat software so it will look different but it will be the same log in and everything as before. http://www.forum.birthmombuds.com/ Look for "live chat" in the board index.


  1. Hello,
    My name is Kayla on Feb 17, 2010 i gave birth to a baby boy at the age of 17 my senior year of higgschool. I was not ready to be a mother single with no employment and nothing to give him besides my love. So during my pregnancy i arranged an open adoption with a couple who is close family friends. She had been wanting a child and since they gotten married had three miscarriages and was losing hope. The whole process was and is very hard for me to this day. I do not regret my decision at all but I just have a hole it seems in my heart from goin through all the pain and joy of being pregnant and birth but im not a mom. It is the best and hardest decision of my life but everytime i see how happy he is and how much he loves his mommy and daddy and all he's things (hes very spoiled) it makes all my own loss and everything completly worth it. I have never spoken with any other birth moms and i feel it would help me. So any birth mom's willing to talk to me i would very much apperciate it add me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/kayla.lawless1 or email me at unr2014@hotmail.com. Thank you!!!

  2. But Kayla, you ARE a mom! You are a birth parent. You gave a wonderful gift to a family who wanted that more than anything and that was the best thing you could have possibly done for your child. Whether that baby is with another family or not, you still carried your baby and you, as a mother, made the best possible decision you could have for that baby. You are wonderful don't forget that!! <3

  3. Hi. My name is elisa and I'm 23 years old. I'm 7 months with my first child and I haven't found the gender yet because I'm waiting for my insurance card for the sonogram. This whole experience has been a freak out and difficult because its a secret to mine and his family. We've chosen a semi open adoption and the next move I believe is to go meet the new parents as soon as I get the sonogram done. I'm very nervous and anxious and a little terrified. We are not ready and decided that this is the best choice r the child but I'm so uneasy its unreal. The decision is still solid with us but we still feel as if were letting the child down and just want the best for him or her. I know I'm not that young so adoption may seem silly to others but with no job and no school currently and just now getting insurance, it seems like the best answer even though it'll probably be the hardest choice we have ever made as individuals and as a couple....thats my comment for now. Thank you